Jasmine says My Sister’s House saved her life.
“I was totally a slave in his hands,” she said. Jasmine says when they met in India, her husband talked about a life of promise in America.
When she arrived, there was no home, no car. She discovered a mistress and an abusive husband.
“Emotionally, I was shattered,” she said. “Negative thoughts would overcome me and I would cry but there was nothing.”
Jasmine felt isolated. English was her second language and she had no one.
“He wouldn’t let me talk to people. He wouldn’t let me go outside so I couldn’t find somebody from India so I couldn’t tell my situation to anybody,” Jasmine said.
The beatings went on for years until he broke her leg. Police sent her to My Sister’s House, a domestic violence shelter for the Asian Pacific Islander community.
“It’s not that unusual unfortunately. I often hear their stories and wonder about the other Jasmine’s out there that may not have been so lucky,” said Executive Director Nilda Valmores.
For a decade, the shelter has housed women and children in crisis. It also provides counseling and a women-to-work program.